Sunday, February 23, 2014

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I have always been one to believe that anything is possible.  My training in yoga and Reiki teaches us that we are masters of our own destiny and that our realities are the direct projection of our thoughts.  This may seem a little fantastic to some, but this metaphysical concept can be applied to real life.  The question you have to ask yourself when you make a million excuses for not changing something is not “why can’t I?” but instead “why not?”  Every invention and every discovery made did not exist until it was invented and discovered.  Therefore, my reaction to some of the excuses listed in the 50 Reasons Not to Change graphic created by Dr. Watkins is of disbelief (Watkins, 2011).  I don’t believe colleagues when they give their reasons not to change.  I believe they have a fear, I believe that they are not confident, and I even believe that they believe the reason they are giving.  But I am of the mindset that if there is a will, there is a way, and history has proven this.  

With that said, I have been guilty of using many of the reasons given in the slide show as an excuse not to change something.  But in my heart, I know that it is only an excuse.  I understand that most of the reasons that I have not changed something in my life are because of a fear of failure.  It’s easier not to try, then to try and fail.  But I also believe that if I want something bad enough, I can make it happen.
I think one way to overcome the negative thought process that creates those responses to change efforts is to look for people who have been successful.  In today’s technologically advanced world, you can find an individual who has succeeded in something you want to do or something similar.  Just by finding that kindred spirit, it can help propel you into action.  Seth Godin talks about this same concept of connecting with others who think the same way as you and to be inspired and moved to make change because of a sense of belongingness (Godin, 2009).  It’s also important to understand why you need a change to happen.  Godin uses the example of Nathan Winograd who changed the way society dealt with stray animals.  Everyone understood the need for the SPCA, too many dogs and cats on the streets.  But Nathan made communities question how this problem was being solved.  He needed a change in this process because he could not accept the reality that innocent dogs and cats were being killed.  Therefore, a change happened. In my position, many times I ask my Director why we follow certain procedures.  When I feel something is inefficient or unethical, I question it.  Many times she has told me that it is the way things have always been done.  I then suggest alternatives to do it better.  I realized in my office, since she was usually a one-man show, that sometimes she just didn’t have time to think about other ways of doing things or the time to implement new ways of doing things.  I on the other hand, prefer to spend the extra time to make the changes if in the long run they will deem my job easier.  

I definitely agree with Godin’s statement that change is driven by tribes.  Watching his video reminded me of a quote by Margaret Mead “never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world, indeed it is the only thing that has” (as cited by Taylor, 2010).   All great movements have started with small tribes.  Women’s rights, the end of slavery, civil rights, all of these movements started with one person who was not happy with the status quo.  They reached out into the communities and found others who did not like the status quo either, and so on and so forth.  Sometimes people are afraid to change, but when they see they are not alone, they are able to see through those excuses.  Godin makes an important statement when he says “the movement you create isn't for everyone, it's not a mass thing. That's not what this is about. What it's about instead is finding the true believers”.  Great important changes that are everlasting are not made because people are forced into making the change but because they believe.  It is the power of passion that really propagates change.

My takeaway from this video is that all the resources I need to make meaningful change are to find those kindred spirits who believe the same thing.  This video actually inspires me to question the status quo.  At my organization, many of us are already doing this.  When I am unhappy about something I reach out to my coworkers and get their opinions.  Many times I see that they feel the same way I do.  I am lucky, because my Director is not afraid to question things in our office.  Although we haven’t seen great changes in some of the things that we feel are important, we have been heard.  I hope with time, when our pleas are heard throughout the organization from all the other “believers”  that those who control how changes are made will also believe.

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